FRIENDSTER/FACEBOOK versus REALITY
weakness- dangerous
strength-convenient
i feel that friendster and facebook can never be able to replace face-to-face interactions. i mean, friendster and facebooks are like there to allow convenience in making friends and enlarging your social circle. like the word convenience, means, not needing to put in much effort to do something which in is case is not needing to put much effort into the friendship or the relationship with your friend you met online through these social network services.
most people build friendship by hanging out with their frineds right? as in through spending quality time together and all. not by posting each other messages in friendster and facebook isn't it? sure, you get to know so much more friends at a faster rate and at the convenience of where ever places that has a computer/laptop and internet connection. but i think getting to know the person face-to-face is much more personal and up close right? no? i mean, when you really want to build a true and real friendship with someone you'd make that effort to meet that person up and really spend time and do stuff with the person right?
i mean, even though the person might be nice and all in friendster or facebook, it can just be a fake image the person is trying to portray right? i mean, some people wanna act cool and all on their profiles, photo angles show the best sides of them, but buiilding relationships means accepting all rights adn wrongs right? i mean , not ALL wrongs la. but at least you know the rights and the wrongs and still love the person mah. no? through these social networking sites, one can never be too sure if the person is what they seem. we know the best sides of people, or the person the people are trying to portay themsleves in these networking sites mah. ska li when you finally think the person is like toyour friend already then you guys meet out he/she turns out to be some weird psycho pervert?? cuz of these, girls get scammed la.
strength-convenient
i feel that friendster and facebook can never be able to replace face-to-face interactions. i mean, friendster and facebooks are like there to allow convenience in making friends and enlarging your social circle. like the word convenience, means, not needing to put in much effort to do something which in is case is not needing to put much effort into the friendship or the relationship with your friend you met online through these social network services.
most people build friendship by hanging out with their frineds right? as in through spending quality time together and all. not by posting each other messages in friendster and facebook isn't it? sure, you get to know so much more friends at a faster rate and at the convenience of where ever places that has a computer/laptop and internet connection. but i think getting to know the person face-to-face is much more personal and up close right? no? i mean, when you really want to build a true and real friendship with someone you'd make that effort to meet that person up and really spend time and do stuff with the person right?
i mean, even though the person might be nice and all in friendster or facebook, it can just be a fake image the person is trying to portray right? i mean, some people wanna act cool and all on their profiles, photo angles show the best sides of them, but buiilding relationships means accepting all rights adn wrongs right? i mean , not ALL wrongs la. but at least you know the rights and the wrongs and still love the person mah. no? through these social networking sites, one can never be too sure if the person is what they seem. we know the best sides of people, or the person the people are trying to portay themsleves in these networking sites mah. ska li when you finally think the person is like toyour friend already then you guys meet out he/she turns out to be some weird psycho pervert?? cuz of these, girls get scammed la.
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